Update #110, Saturday, October 6, 2007, Goma, Democratic Republic of Congo
Silly Saturday
Several weeks ago we were asked what the topic of this year's travels' update would be. While there were various thoughts tumbling through our heads, there was nothing concrete. And so we were offered the topic of 'silly Saturdays’ by the venerable Mark Weckesser, treasurer extraordinaire of WorldVenture. So if some of you are not into the idea of ‘silly Saturdays’, please feel free to let us know and we will remove your name from the list which receives these updates.
This first ‘silly Saturday’ takes place in Goma, Congo. However, while thinking I knew the definition of ‘silly’, I decided to look it up in the dictionary just to be sure. These following definitions are from “The New Shorter Oxford Dictionary".
1. Deserving of pity, compassion, sympathy
2. Esp. Of a woman, child or animal, helpless, defenseless
3. Weak, feeble, insignificant
4. Low in intelligence
5. Displaying lack of judgment, foolish
Silly is also a cricket term and poetic epithet of sheep. The source of silly is Middle English. Not what I was expecting in terms of a definition. And so being the author of 'silly Saturdays’ I will take poetic license to choose the definition for the day.
This evening we sat with our folks who work in this war torn corner of the country with over 200,000 internally displaced people (refugees in their own country) where over 5,000,000 have been killed in recent years by war and the effects of war. Our folks here are involved with the church through schools, hospitals, centers for grieving and traumatized children.
WorldVenture partners with 287 churches, currently 203 have been disrupted, displaced or destroyed due to war.
Slowly the stories started tumbling out of people who make up those horrendous numbers in the paragraph above.
The home of a pastor was invaded by one of the marauding armies in this area. While the husband and children were forced to watch the mother was repeatedly raped and then killed.
One of the young sons began to slowly loose his mind after this event.
The pastor remarried the younger sister of his murdered wife.
The son grew worse. Another pastor and through a WorldVenture ministry to grieving children intervened in the family talking to the boy and his father and began to bring about some healing.
A few weeks ago the home was again invaded by one of the local armies. This time an older sister was taken by the soldiers to be raped. In agony the father cried out for his daughter. A soldier knifed him in his side and left him to bleed to death while they continued on with their vile acts.
After they left, the father was found to be alive. He was taken to a clinic where he received free treatment and lived.
The fiancé of the ravished young lady broke his engagement and now the pastor has to return the bride price which they don’t have because it was stolen and used.
When the telling of this story was completed we were silent.
How does one contemplate such a 'silly' story-deserving of compassion and pity?
Finally one of the six of us commented that this story could be repeated by the 1000s. Another commented that there is no way that we can help so many damaged lives. But we can reach one person, care for one person, touch one person, and show the love of Christ to one person. And that is the hope with which people who live here face each day...one life can be touched out of the hurting 1000s.
There was one other very telling comment to describe people and life here. To understand this concept, stand up. Are you standing? Now look at your feet - straight down at your feet. Now walk forward, keep walking, and don’t look up. How far can you get without walking into something?
Now that is a silly action-foolish, displaying lack of judgment. But if tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow are filled with armies invading your home and garden, you do not plan for the future step. You only take one step and stop. You do not look up. If you look up there is nothing that can be imagined. There is no future. There is no tomorrow. Gardens are not planted. One does not even pay for a semester of school fees because one does know if the semester will even be completed.
And that is a ‘silly Saturday’ in Congo. May your Saturday have been otherwise.
Thank you all who are praying for Kathy’s mother and have written such kind notes. Mom is back home with Dad. Kathy’s brother from Vermont and one of his daughters have shared many days with my folks. And my sister who lives in the area is a frequent part of everyone's life who shares in Dad and Mom's life.